Monday, April 13, 2009

Men are Stupid

This semester all my professors are male. I don't mind this; they are all knowledgeable in their fields, hard but fair graders, easy to get along with, and, frankly, I couldn't care less the gender of my teacher as long as they teach well. But I have noticed something which strikes me as strange. Each professor (at least once; one practically every class) has told us students in one way or the other, in one context or another:

"Oh, yes, and men are stupid."

Which gets an appreciative giggle from the class, male and female students alike, and then the lecture continues.

I find this oddly irritating.

I am not by any means against the empowerment of women; it is true that women have traditionally been given poorer education than men, something which I, as a bookworm and knowledge-hungry nerd, see as nothing but deplorable. But to me, empowerment is equal opportunity, not using obsession over equality as an excuse at belittling others, not only of the opposite gender, but of your own. I find this sort of extreme feminist sort of talk aggravating enough when a woman is doing it; why do men now seem to be jumping on the bandwagon in bashing their own sex? I mean, good for all those females who are now seeking careers in science and math and all--they have a right to it-- but does this necessarily mean, in the words of one of my professors, that they are 'triumphantly breaking free of the chains of tradition and taking over the scholarly world, which is only fair because women are smarter than men. Sorry guys, but we're idiots.'

I think not. Men are people too. Men have the same rights as those women clamor for. Why can't we just accept that both women and men can be intelligent and successful and worthy of each other?

Perhaps I'm just living in the past, but I don't think that by glorifying women and knocking down men we can create a more perfect world.

And so, sitting in my classes--most particularly the one where I get subjected to jokes about male inferiority every week--I find myself pondering, not the lesson on the board, but instead other questions whispering in my mind.

Why, in our modern educational culture, do we think it fine to class men as 'stupid' in an attempt at pumping women's egos higher? 

Why, in our efforts to 'break down barriers', do we think the proper procedure is to swap which side of the wall we stand on and then build the barrier stronger?

Why do we pursue equality not simply by giving those who are lower a hand up, but instead by dragging down those who have been higher and then trampling on them?

7 comments:

  1. Dude, if all men are idiots, doesn't that make his opinion invalid anyways? I hate that attitude, though. It is a vile, foul, excrable practice, whether employed by the female or male halves of our species. A pox on whomever decided that the worth of the members of one gender is indirectly proportional to that o the other. This kind of thinking is a measle and a blight upon the face of young adult and fantasy fiction--male characters are always either "hurr, hurr, be mah woman," or "please allow me lick the sacred female foot." Women of the world, unite! WE ARE TOO SEXY TO BE THIS DESPERATE!

    *cough*

    Please. These cannot be the only kinds of guys out there. There must be some men out there that have some concept of self-acceptance without being overweeing jerks.

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  2. E-zackly. Is it too much to ask that people be simply people, and that they define equality as a recognition of how everyone is important? Knocking yourself down won't help anything . . . and to be impressing upon your male students repeatedly that they are idiots compared to women . . . honestly . . .
    There be women. And there be men. And correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe that God created 'em to co-exist . . .

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  3. Join my bandwagon, m'dears. I've been upset at this for a long time. I hate the whole "men are cavemen - they either accept that and act like your whipped dogs, or like brutes..."
    I know several extremely brilliant guys - smarter than almost all the girls I know. Then, there are you guys- smarter than almost all the guys I know. Even balance peepsies.

    ~Linden

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  4. :D Eleven episodes in one day, huh? WOW!!! That might be worse than me....it's great isn't it? You can watch all the episodes online for free if you have a good internet connection. I'm glad your enjoying it. Have fun!

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  5. It was the weekend, it was either have fun and watch or be responsible and do homework, and I'm a sucker for cliff-hangers. So yeah.
    I'm currently tracking them all down on Youtube, it's working so far :)

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  6. Did you see that answer I gave to your question about the curling iron many days ago on Ups and Downs? I hope it helped.

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  7. I totally agree with you. I consider myself to be a feminist, but I hate when reverse discrimination is used. Men and women both have unique and crucial attributes for humanity; we are equal.

    Nice blog!

    Rosa

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